Deposit Policy
To ensure clarity and mutual respect, a deposit is required to secure our time together. Deposits should be sent in a timely manner—ideally within 5 messages. If a deposit is not received after a reasonable exchange, communication will respectfully cease. Our time together is not reserved until the funds have cleared.
Deposit Requirements
Dates under 4 hours: 20–30%
Dates over 4 hours or touring dates: 50%
FMTY/FMWY engagements
50–100%
Payment Methods
Cash
Bank Transfer to my discreet business account
Revolut or Wise
The remaining balance is due immediately upon arrival. I kindly ask that you provide my donation within the first 5 minutes of our date. If we’re meeting in public, an envelope/book or small gift bag is preferred for discretion.
As a standard part of my routine, I will excuse myself to the restroom shortly after we meet to discreetly verify the donation. Thank you for your understanding and respect—it allows us to begin our time together with ease and comfort.
Cancellation Policy
I completely understand that life happens—plans change, and that’s okay. Communication and respect go a long way, and I truly appreciate early notice. Deposits are non-refundable unless I cancel. Deposits may be transferred to another date with adequate notice, at my discretion.
Rescheduling Notice Guidelines
Dates under 12 hours: Please provide at least 3 days’ notice to transfer your deposit.
Dates over 12 hours: Please provide at least 5 days’ notice to transfer your deposit.
FMTY engagements: If cancelled within 2 weeks of our scheduled trip, the full fee may still apply.
Late Cancellations
If you cancel within 48–72 hours of our appointment, the deposit is forfeited and a cancellation fee equal to 100% of the agreed rate will be required.
On tour: Cancellations are rarely able to be rescheduled, but I will do my best.
Touring Policy
For both international and domestic touring appointments, all deposits are non-refundable and non-transferable, regardless of length. Minor changes to times or dates may be possible, though they are not guaranteed. Any deposit or credit held that remains unused for more than 6 months will be considered forfeited. If I need to cancel our date for any reason, I will offer one of the following options:
- A sincere effort to reschedule at a mutually convenient time,
- Holding your deposit indefinitely until we can meet again for a date of the same length or longer, or returning your deposit in full.
Extended Time & (FMTY) Etiquette
Thank you for considering a longer engagement—these experiences are truly special when built on mutual respect and thoughtful planning.
- I kindly ask that you cover 100% of the travel costs associated with our time together. Please note that all travel-related costs are non-refundable.
- For overnight engagements, I truly value 7–8 hours of uninterrupted sleep to ensure I’m fully present and refreshed.
- I appreciate a few hours of personal time each day to unwind, exercise, and recharge.
- I may need to briefly use my phone for basic personal matters, and I appreciate your understanding.
- Access to healthy meals and a gym (or a safe space to move) during our time together is always appreciated.
- All travel costs, as well as a 25% non-refundable deposit, are required to confirm and secure the date in advance.
- A general itinerary ahead of the trip helps me prepare and pack accordingly, and ensures we both enjoy a smooth and memorable experience.
- I kindly ask that no photos, videos, or recordings of me be taken without my clear and enthusiastic consent.
- I always enjoy a night out, beautiful dinners, and a glass of champagne, wine, or a cheeky cocktails. That said, I occasionally take breaks from alcohol entirely-and I kindly ask that you respect that choice when it applies.
Thank you for reading and respecting these boundaries. Please note that failure to honor them may result in immediate termination of our date, and all future contact..
Punctuality
Our time together is something I truly value, and I believe you do too. If you’re running late-whether it’s traffic, a last-minute call, or just life getting in the way-please keep me posted.
I allow up to 10–15 minutes of delay, but waiting without a word can feel a little lonely (and not the good kind). A quick message goes a long way. If I’m ever the one delayed, I’ll be sure to honour our full time together. Communication keeps the mood lovely-and the anticipation even sweeter.
Reviews
What happens between us, stays between us. Just as I respect your privacy, I prefer for you to respect my own. I have a “no review” policy, meaning that I ask you not to share the details of our time together online. I do not accept profile verification from review boards as screening.
Keeping in Touch Between Dates
I know it can be tough being apart from me-what can I say, I break the mold with a heart of gold! But truly, I understand the desire to stay in touch, and if there’s something you’d like to share or you just feel like having a little chat before our next date, feel free to reach out via phone (text is preferred) or email.
That said, please understand that I also have a personal life and commitments outside of our time together. While you’re always welcome to message me, I reply only when I have the space and energy to do so. It’s never personal—just part of maintaining balance in my life.
Sometimes, especially when I travel or take time to rest and recharge, I intentionally disconnect to be fully present in those moments. So if your message isn’t related to planning our next date, please don’t take it to heart if there’s a delay in my response—or even if it takes a few days. I’ll always respect your time and space, and I kindly ask for the same in return. Please also keep in mind that keeping in touch between dates is not part of the booking—it’s something I do from my own personal time and willingness. If I’m taking the time and energy to connect, it’s because I genuinely enjoy our dynamic, and I hope that effort is met with appreciation and respect. Mutual kindness and consideration go a long way in maintaining a meaningful connection.
Let’s keep things light, warm, and respectful between our moments together.
Hygiene
I’ll always arrive well-groomed, fresh, and dressed with care—it’s part of how I show respect for the time we share. Impeccable hygiene is important to me, and I kindly expect the same in return.
If you’ve had a long day or have been out and about, I’d really appreciate it if you could take a moment to freshen up before we start the fun. A quick shower can make a big difference—it helps us both feel comfortable, confident, and fully present to enjoy our time together.It’s all about setting the mood and making sure we both feel our best.
Safety
Your safety and mine are of the utmost importance. I aim to create a relaxed, respectful space where we both feel comfortable and cared for.
If at any point during our time together I feel unsafe, disrespected, or that my boundaries are being compromised, I reserve the right to end the booking immediately without refund for the remaining time. This includes—but is not limited to—physical or verbal abuse, intimidation, excessive intoxication, drug use, unsafe behavior, signs of illness or infection, poor hygiene, or any form of harassment.
I do not engage in any unsafe or unhygienic activities. A quick health check may be part of our meeting, and if there are visible signs of infection, illness, or other contagious conditions, I will offer safe and respectful alternatives.
In rare circumstances, if I feel that continuing the booking poses a risk to my health or wellbeing, I may be forced to end our time together. Your understanding of these boundaries helps ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for both of us.